Looking to try sex toys for couples? You’ve come to the right place! Perhaps your sex life has taken a backseat recently? With life busy at the best of times, it’s easy to neglect intimacy and put both your needs on the back burner. One of the simple remedies to save your sex life is to try sex toys. It’s a guaranteed way to spice up your sex life and reignite that bedroom spark!
Reconnection and Communication
Sex toys for couples not only spice things up quickly, but allow you and your partner time to reconnect and make it about you two. The key to good sex is communication, so talk about what turns you on and discuss what you’d each like to try. Keeping an open narrative is fundamental. If you don’t speak what’s on your mind, it could lead to miscommunication and even resentment further down the line.
It should also be mentioned that what happens outside of the sheets is extremely important. If you’re building up to intimacy or using sex toys, make the surrounding time together special. A weekly date night can make such a difference to your relationship and levels of communication. Putting aside an evening to catch up and discuss important things within your relationship is essential. Our day-to-day can be stressful, and it’s easy to pass each other by as we go through the motions. Ensuring this time plays a huge part in a healthy sex life and can open up new and exciting opportunities!
Bored to Buzzing
Perhaps you’re finding sex monotonous at the moment? Sex toys for couples can inject rejuvenation into your intimate time together. Have fun exploring your options, get to know what makes each other tick. Again, keep the conversation open during experimentation. Ask your partner ‘does that feel good’ or tell your partner ‘I like it when you…’.
Sex Schedule
It may sound extreme, but when life is busy, schedule sex and make time to play with your toys! Putting aside the time for each other is fundamental for a healthy relationship and also, a great form of self-care.
Why not make things a little more exciting and send your significant other a picture or two throughout the day? Get them to send some back too! For women especially, sexual build up is everything. Allowing your imagination to run wild throughout the day, with the help of a few images, will ensure a build-up of sexual energy for later.
Shopping for A Toy
When shopping for sex toys for couples, look into the specifics. There are some toys that are better for clitoral orgasm, some for anal play and others better for exploring different erogenous zones you may not have even thought of! You name it, there is probably a toy for it.
If you’re struggling to decide, ask yourself:
- Do you want a toy to use on yourself, your partner or one that works on both of you at the same time?
- Do you want an external or internal toy?
- Do you want quiet or loud sex toy?
- Do you want a cheap toy or are you happy to spend a little more?
We would suggest reading the reviews before you buy. Once you’ve established what you want from a toy, narrow it down by reading public opinions.
Recommended Toys for Beginners
Here are some of the sex toys for couples looking to begin their journey.
Couple’s Vibrator
If you get satisfaction from pleasuring each other simultaneously, this one is for you! You can create intense sensations for each other, using the device at the same time, or taking it in turns. With many different settings and sizes available, these vibrators have been built to create intense pleasure and connection between you both. Our remote control couple’s vibrator is one of our best sellers and allows ultimate control when it comes to satisfying each other!
Pleasure Balls
Vibrating pleasure balls, also known as kegel balls, double up as a pelvic floor trainer for a sensual, sexual experience. Slip them to your vagina during the day for a kinky experience, or during foreplay, while you pleasure your partner. The gentle vibrations created as you move will ensure strong climactic effects. You can also use these to massage erogenous zones to rile you both up!
Cock Ring
Great for beginners, cock rings slide over the penis and are worn during intercourse. The tiny vibrator stimulates the clitoris, whilst you’re on top or underneath. The best part is that you can both feel the intense vibrations, bringing you closer together. This little firecracker is portable, discreet and ideal for travel - you can literally pop it in your bag for when the moment strikes!
Get in Touch
If you’re looking to spice up your sex life with sex toys for couples, Little Miss Vanilla are here to help! We are experts in all things seductive and erotic for all genders. With a passion for delivering the highest quality sex toys and lingerie to our vast customer base, we are strong believers that everybody can benefit from what we have to offer!
If you have any questions or queries, we’d love to hear from you. Simply get in touch with our expert team by filling out our contact form today.
