There are many misconceptions surrounding sex toys – from the weird, the wild and the categorically incorrect. Here is at Little Miss Vanilla, we’re well versed when it comes to all the rumours! In this week’s edition, our experts take a look at some of the most common misconceptions and give our readers some clarity.
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Sex Toys Are Only for Single People
Misconception number one is that sex toys are just for single people. This couldn’t be further from the truth. In fact, sex toys are an essential part of both solo sex and sex with a partner for many!
Toys aren’t just for singles, or people who are ‘lonely’. People of all walks of life, all relationship statuses and all genders use them to enhance their sex lives! There’s plenty to choose from – it’s all about exploring what makes your feel comfortable.
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Sex Toys Are for Those with Bad Sex Lives
One outdated statement is that sex toys are for those who aren’t satisfied with their sex lives. This simply isn’t true. They are used to enrich a path of sexual knowledge and satisfaction, which can result in better sex of any kind!
Using toys with a partner is nothing to be ashamed of – they can make sex more pleasurable for you both! From cock rings to vibrators and handcuffs to blindfolds, there’s something suitable for every preference.
We also need to drop the stigma that sex toys are a ‘threat to partners’, because for many, they are a necessity during intercourse. They don’t take away from the comfort and intimacy of a person but can help achieve climax. Our advice would be to have fun and experiment together because it’ll only enhance that personal time in the bedroom!
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If A Woman Needs A Sex Toy to Orgasm, There’s Something Wrong
This couldn’t be further from the truth! There is nothing wrong here – it’s simple anatomy! Many women need the help of sex toys to orgasm because it can be a lot harder for a woman to climax than it is for a man.
In fact, 70%-90% of women cannot climax through penetrative sex alone. 75% of women said that they need additional prolonged clitoral stimulation to orgasm – not many people know this. Vibrators, dildos and clitoral suction stimulators can change sex for women, allowing them to have control over their pleasure and their health too. Empowering, liberating and fun!
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Couples Who Use Sex Toys Must Lack Creativity
Quite the opposite! Couples who use sex toys open their doors to a whole host of sexual experiences and opportunities, making things even more exciting! All genders can benefit from toys, plus there are many that go hand in hand and are even better when used together – a creative frisky fusion in our opinion!
Sex toys for couples can make sex more versatile and aids in adding an element of fun and spontaneity that some partnerships can lack after time. Sex toys can help to build a level of intimacy and trust that you’ve never had before. This means a healthier relationship and more exciting sex! What’s not to love?
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Sex Toys Are Just Embarrassing
If the thought of sex toys makes you wince, it’s time to broaden your horizons. Talking about sex and pleasure isn’t something that should be frowned upon or seen as embarrassing, it’s a natural part of being human. Speaking openly about these things can actually reduce shame, guilt or embarrassment that surrounds the taboo of sex and toys.
For people who have a sexual dysfunction, talking about sex toys and other pleasure options is extremely important. For example, women suffering from anorgasmia have been shown to greatly benefit from the use of vibrators and relaxation/mood boosting toys like stimulation feathers and massage oils. For men struggling to get an erection, sex toys offer help with climax, and become an essential part of sex. We must keep the conversation open, inclusive and drop the stigma so that people don’t suffer in silence and understand their options.
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Toys Are for Women
False! Sex toys can be enjoyed by everyone. Anyone of any gender can use and benefit from toys, whether it’s by themselves or with a partner. You just simply have to do your research to find what’s most pleasurable for you. Want to know more? Take a look at our extensive range of male and transgender sex toys for you to browse.
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